Open Hands

Happiness is like peeing your pants: Everyone can see it, but only you can feel its warmth.
--Unknown

Hospitality is a test for godliness because those who are selfish do not like strangers (especially needy ones) to intrude upon their private lives. They prefer their own friends who share their lifestyle. Only the humble have the necessary resources to give of themselves to those who could never give of themselves in return.
– Erwin Lutzer

Consider inviting someone over for tea… for soup and salad… or for an impromptu dinner. It doesn’t have to be much. You don’t need the right china or crystal, matching linens or napkins, or a gourmet meal. The accessories are long forgotten, but the memory of a relaxing time with friends lingers far beyond the occasion.

Put aside all thoughts of daily pressures or deadlines, or whether your house is clean enough for company. Just wear your best welcoming smile. Remember, you’re not simply entertaining; you are inviting someone in so they can feel valued and cared for, where relationships can be developed and nurtured. Your kitchen can be the place to iron out the world’s wrinkles, a cozy place for small talk, or a safe haven for someone who needs to share a deep and secret hurt.

And should your doorbell ring sometime when the house is a mess or you’re not quite put together, answer it anyway. Unwelcome visitors sometimes bring unexpected blessings.

Caring enough to open your haven and extend hospitality opens your heart as well. As the saying goes, “If there is room in your heart, there is room in your home!”